Orly the Matchmaker recently decided not to charge women for her matchmaking service. Women would have to be very gorgeous and aged 25 through 35. These are the basic requirements. If you are a woman matching these requirements go to www.orlythematchmaker.biz and fill out the application form, then email your form and photos to the address on the website.
If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it. Nowhere is this saying truer than in dating. If you’ve found a nice chick, you naturally want to say something memorable to impress her.
Oftentimes, however, men forget this maxim and boldly speak their minds in complete disregard of the feelings of others. This can get you in hot water later, especially if your date doesn’t share your beliefs and has a different opinion about the subject matter.
Since your main objective is to win her over, don’t force your opinions and beliefs to her. You won’t get her that way. Remember that most women are highly emotional about certain topics so it makes no sense in changing her mind about things overnight. Neither will it help your cause if you appear like an insensitive bigot and a one-sided fool.
When talking to her, choose your subjects wisely. Make her laugh and comfortable in your presence. Avoid controversial topics or those that produce negative emotions like guilt, anger, jealousy, fear, tension or depression. Learn to say what she likes to hear and you’ll be surprised how far you’ll go.
Wherever you go and whatever you do, steer clear of these hot topics. They won’t get you anywhere and you’ll only end up alienating her:
Evolution vs. creation. Which came first – the chicken or the egg? No one knows for sure so don’t ruin the perfect date by talking about something that can’t be answered. You’ll end up arguing.
Religion. This is another highly debatable subject that you can both discuss for hours and agree on nothing. Many wars have been fought because of religion and even members of the same church are sometimes split when it comes to interpreting it. Don’t put this in your list of topics.
Her boyfriend. Let her talk about her boyfriend if she wants to but don’t make any side comments about him. Just listen to her and smile. Often she’s just testing you to see how you’ll react. Think about it: if she’s not interested in you, why would she go out with you in the first place? To get back at her, you can try reverse psychology by saying, “I’m glad you and your boyfriend are getting along pretty well and I’m happy for both of you. It’s hard finding the perfect guy nowadays.” That will make you the perfect gentleman and will give her something to think about!
Your frustration with women. This isn’t the time to talk about your boring love life or your misfortunes with other members of the opposite sex. She’ll think you’re a loser and will have second thoughts about dating you again. Don’t be bitter about your past or dwell on your bad relationships. Keep the conversation pleasant and make it appear you love everything about women – the way they dress, their charms, their passion, and femininity. She’ll love you for that!
Article Author: http://www.zyroxin.com/.
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Orly the Matchmaker
Orly the Matchmaker has recently expanded her online presence with a second website and a new myspace profile. Orly has up until now kept an offline audience. Her reason for expanding is to spread her expertise in the matchmaking industry and share her knowledge for developing long term relationships that result in marriage.
Below you can find Orly’s contact information as well as the URL’s to her websites.
Phone:
(310) 335.4635
Address:
8391 Beverly Blvd. #161
Los Angeles, CA. 90048
http://www.orlythematchmaker.com
Orly, who only uses her first name and prefers to be known as Orly The Matchmaker, is based in Beverly Hills, California, and is featured in the 2003 Guinness Book of World Records as the most expensive matchmaker in the world.
The $200,000 US is her highest fee and what she charges for finding partners for or matching clients with, “royalty, famous stars or international celebrities.”
For lesser mortals, (”the beautiful, elite, wealthy, famous and top business professionals”), the packages start at $25,000 (for finding your match in one state); $50,000 (to search all over the U.S.) and $100,000 for a worldwide search.
You not only get your perfect soulmate for that money but Orly guarantees you will get a match within 30-60 days and there is no limit on the number of introductions for up to three years, depending on the package you buy from her.
While it might sound as if she’s set herself a tough, if not impossible task, the beautiful and glamorous “yenta”, as Orly likes to call herself, says she’s totally confident about fulfilling such a mandate.
“We are very, very high-end matchmaking service,” she emphasizes in a phone interview from Beverly Hills, obviously very proud of her diamond-studded reputation. She also makes sure I understand that her business is “not a dating agency. I am a legitimate marriage broker drawing from a select group of serious marriage-minded men and women who are looking for mates with impeccable backgrounds.”
She says she’s 46 and been matchmaking for 25 years, carrying on a family tradition. “My parents were matchmakers in Israel for 50 years.” They matched her with her husband who she says is “still perfect” after 25 years and two children.
But whereas her parents did matchmaking for the love of it and made very little money, Orly took a business route when she came to America 25 years ago. She was immediately successful and her reputation is now known all over the world.
Savvy marketer
Over the phone, Orly radiates enormous confidence and enthusiasm for her business. She’s also a savvy marketer. Without pausing for breath, she tells me about her book–Finding the Perfect Man, her Web site, video, worldwide television and radio appearance, her ads in top magazines (she has a yearly advertising budget of a million dollars), a possible TV talk show and how it works when you sign up with her.
All of the introductions are custom-made, based on compatibility in lifestyle, careers, values and goals. Orly handles every client personally with the aid of a staff of six at her sumptuous Beverly Hills offices.
However, although you may be single, searching for a mate and very rich, it doesn’t guarantee you’ll automatically become one of Orly’s clients. She’s adamant about the type of client she’ll accept. “They must be very attractive, accomplished men and women who are slim, healthy and into a healthy lifestyle.” She also carries out a thorough background check and won’t accept men who earn less than a quarter of a million dollars (US) a year.
When you’ve filled out her application forms, (they can be found on her Web site www.orlythematchmaker.com), you then have an in-depth phone interview with her. If you’re accepted, the fee is paid upfront, (by cheque, no credit cards), and you fly to California to meet her. You’re met at the airport by a limousine and taken to a luxury Rodeo Drive hotel. Then comes a day’s shopping on Rodeo Drive, a visit to her offices for an appointment with her and a lavish lunch at a top restaurant.
“Everything is very high-end luxury, of course,” she says.
I ask her what she thinks of today’s world of everyday dating such as the Internet and both sexes paying their way. “Such rubbish!,” she snorts derisively. “The internet is full of people who lie–married people, criminals and losers. And I don’t know who invented going Dutch, she continues, “Its all wrong! The man should pay!”
Orly says she believes in “old-fashioned” values where the woman is cherished by the man and she looks up to him. She especially believes in people having the best manners and behavior.
“My clients are elegant, classy people,” she says, ” and they expect the very best. That’s what I give. I work very hard for them–seven days a week. There’s no other service like it in the world.”
Now if I could just win the lottery.
Time-tested and True!
a stroll on the beach, bicycle ride or picnic by the lake, where you can wear
comfortable clothing.
Orly, Based in Beverly Hills, California, USA has set the standard in professional matchmaking for the past twenty five years. Her clients include the elite, wealthy, famous, and professional. They are scattered around the globe. She draws from a large, yet select group of serious marriage-minded men and women who seek mates with impeccable backgrounds, as well as compatible lifestyles, careers, values, and goals.
Orly, Based in Beverly Hills, California, USA, has set the standard in professional matchmaking for the past twenty-five years. Her clients include the elite, celebrities, wealthy, famous, and professional. They are scattered around the globe. She draws from a large, yet select, group of serious marriage-minded men and women who seek mates with impeccable backgrounds, as well as compatible lifestyles, careers, values, and goals.
In the Internet-driven world of the 21st century, with hundreds of online dating and introduction services, Orly still performs her magic without any computers or high-tech gadgets, preferring to spend time with each client on a one-to-one basis, in the old-fashioned tradition of matchmaking.
Orly receives up to $200,000 per client, depending upon geographic location and desired selection criteria. She has matched over thousands of happy couples all over the world. All custom design introductions are tailor made & one on one personal touch is the top of the line. 100% unlimited introductions.
Orly’s videotape, photos and more information are available on www.orlythematchmaker.com.
Orly is available for all media interviews.
From her Beverly Hills penthouse, Orly The Matchmaker, a modern day “yenta”, will find the perfect soulmate for her rich and famous clientele. Single celebrities, lawyers, doctors, millionaires, and busy CEO’s pay between $10,000 to $200,000 for Orly’s matchmaking services. One client described the fee as “substantial, but worth it as an investment in the future”.
Not to be confused with a Dating Service, Orly Hadida is a Marriage Broker, who for a fee will find “the man or woman of your dreams”. For the past 25 years, Orly has brought together thousands of affluent, sophisticated and marriage-minded singles, both nationally and internationally. She has written a book called “Finding the Perfect Match” and she has appeared on hundreds of talk shows, including Phil Donahue, Sally Jesse Raphael, Roseanne, CNN Headline News, E! Entertainment, and Politically Incorrect with Bill Maher. She is well known for her ability to introduce and marry off couples live on television. She is also featured as “the most expensive matchmaker in the world” in the 2003 Guinness Book of World Records.
Raised in Israel, a former Miss Israel, as well as a soldier, model, and actress, Orly says that in Israel “there is a matchmaker on every corner”. In fact, both of her parents were matchmakers. She says, “I learned everything from watching my parents, and then I took their concept and the love of it and brought it to America”.